Yeah the author keeps talking about how the willpower method doesn't work. His whole idea is that porn is not something pleasurable, its something destructive. He talks about people who do what you're doing (pedestalising porn). I do it too. I didn't find his argument totally convincing though so I'll read the book again. His argument was based around porn being a supernormal stimulus which our brains aren't made to handle. The truth for me, though, is that I would just jack off to my imagination anyway, or even to photos (which I often do anyway, in fact thats probably my main material (xhamster amateur photos)). I can jack it to facebook girls easily.>>12908
I have literally zero percent doubt that I would have no problems with porn and jerking off if I had a wife. I had a girlfriend for 1 1/2 years who I lived with and had sex with every 2nd day on average. I definitely got "bored", but the boredom I felt would be like a normal well-adjusted guy eating a burger telling a starving homeless guy that he's getting bored of burgers. Yes I started getting bored of my girlfriend even though she was very hot, but the truth is that pussy just feels good. >>12899
I usually jacked off in the uni library bathrooms when I was getting so distracted by the women around me that I couldn't study. Though sometimes I jacked off in between lectures, for the same reason, its hard to sit in a lecture theatre when you have a hard-on for the roasties sitting nearby.
And have any of you actually thought about this fact? My uni had literally thousands of women. LITERALLY THOUSANDS. And yet I couldn't find ONE who would be my girlfriend. The truth is that I had standards, but still. I wanted a virgin and I was disgusted by non-virgins, and I made no attempt to hide it. So I pushed some of them away, its true. I don't think any of us are "true incels". Unless you are actually a jogger or a pajeet (in which case you have no right to complain, because you should be in your jogger or pajeet country).